I recently heard a priest at Conception Abbey offering the
homily at Eucharist, attended by all the young men preparing to enter the
priestly vocation. He was making the
point “it’s not about you” to these who might presume overweening importance in
their congregation.
He
recounted how as a young pastor he was torn over whether he should abandon some
overdue vacation time to officiate at a wedding. He made the wedding, but many years later he
overheard this conversation.
“Do you
remember your wedding? Who was the
priest? Uh, it was Father . . . I don’t
remember . . .“ Another overheard
conversation, “who baptized your baby?”
It was that new priest, Father . . .uh ”
From these
conversations, Father Patrick discerned it was much more about serving the
church than his personal significance.
It was an important discovery, and it changed his perception of his
vocation.
I recounted
this story at the installation of one of Central’s alums, Seth Vopat,
yesterday. It seems a fitting word for
all ministers.
The Apostle
Paul offers similar wisdom in the Epistle reading (1 Corinthians 3:1-9). For those in the Corinthian church who had
divided into special interests by claiming they followed Paul or Apollos, the
Apostle has a word of correction.
These
leaders, Apollos and Paul, are simply servants; they are not to be a source of
adulation or division. The evidence of
the immaturity of the members of this congregation is their factionalism. There is jealousy and quarreling, and this
behavior demonstrates that they are more attentive to the flesh than to the
Spirit. He flatly calls them “babies”
even though they think of themselves as quite spiritual.. Rather, they are acting just like ordinary
people—not believers.
Paul
differentiates his role from that of Apollos: he planted; Apollos watered; but
God gave the growth. These two leaders
fulfilled their God-given tasks; however, they remain servants to God’s larger
purpose. This is the point anyone in ministry must realize.
When Paul
uses the word diakonos to describe
himself, it is expresses his humility.
Clearly Paul claims no special status or honor by this self-description;
rather, he seems to use it as a term to describe someone whose work is a
channel for God’s working. This is an
expectation for all believers.
Besides it
being one of the lectionary readings, why highlight this text on a day when we
install the Reverend Seth Vopat to his ministry among you? Did you not call him because of his distinctive
vision and gifts for pastoring youth and their families? Of course you did! Yet, you are aware that his role in your
midst is not as a savior figure, but as a co-worker with families, other
ministers, and the youth themselves.
Together you comprise “God’s field.”
Paul’s images are rich with
implications for the life of faith, and it is not surprising that he wants to
focus on growth. The nurture and care of
any member of God’s family or any planting in God’s field requires the
attention and tutelage of many others. Ministers
are to equip the saints (all of you) for the work of the ministry. From Seth, you will learn patterns of
accompanying youth, but he cannot do it alone.
Every person in the congregation has
a nurturing and supporting role to play. When I was a fledgling youth minister,
I hated to ask anyone for help. While I
was eager to invite youth to assist in varied ways, I did not want to bother
their parents. Little did I know how
much they wanted to be involved in their church’s nurture of the youth. When I
matured a little, I learned that it was not all up to me, and that there were
many co-workers in the field.
One who
serves leads by example. Words matter, but actions are more enduring. The Psalmist
encourages persons to walk carefully in the discipline of God, ever seeking God
with their whole heart. This is a charge
to you, Seth. People will listen to your
words, but they will watch your life and hopefully pattern their lives
according to how you manage yours.
They will
see a serious scholar, a committed husband and father, a playful person who can
still nail a flip into the foam pit at skyzone, a coffee connoisseur, and a
fine writer. Seth will see things in
you, also, especially in the youth of the church. Not only will he know their names and
interests, he will notice, name, and nurture their gifts. He will be a reliable guide as they discern
their vocational pathways.
An
installation is a time for the church to celebrate that God continues to
provide the leadership most needed. You
have put a significant pastoral team into place, yet this is not a
pastor-centered church. When each of
these who plants and waters moves off the scene, God will continue to give
growth. You will be remembered for the
ways in which you intersect the lives of members of the church in their liminal
experiences—birth of a child, crisis, illness, and death. The impact of their service will linger, even
when the name may not come readily to mind.
Molly T. Marshall
Central prepares women and men for seeking God, shaping church and serving humanity.
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